Nollywood actress, Monalisa Chinda, has dished out some relationship advice to men concerning how they respect the privacy of their wives and keep intimacy intact.
Monalisa Chinda pointed out that men go through their wives’ phones just because they feel in command.
The actress pointed out that not allowing privacy in the marriage leads to crisis.
See her post below:
Privacy is a big part of knowing how a husband should treat his wife. Just because she is your wife does not mean it is ‘okay’ to open her closet and sift through her items, take her phone and begin to search for what isn’t lost, ( which you men would NEVER allow) unless you know she’s cool with it.
Sometimes, not enough privacy ruins intimacy, so keep that in mind. Marriage is not about being together but also about trusting each other enough to give each other some privacy.
And wives too, learn to keep your prying eyes away from your hubby’s phones and documents that doesn’t concern you! Mind your business sometimes🙄🙄If you are so worried about some ill signs that you are not comfy with, look for a good time to talk about it!
Husbands, please please and please If she plans to go out with her friends on a weekend, let her do so. Give each other some breathing space. I believe that is the best way to cultivate strong trust in the relationship.