Dear Tee,
I have been married with no child since 2010. Since I got married to him, my life has been a mess, he is always beating me and sending me back to my parents’ house. There was a time that he got me arrested by the police for no reason. I have fasted and prayed and visited many spiritual places, all to no avail. Two weeks ago, we went to another spiritual place and we were told his mother is the reason for all my miscarriages. Since then, he has been asking me to pack out that he wants to marry another woman that can bear him children and that he is tired of waiting for me. Should I leave him, this is the third time he is sending me away and he ends up coming back to beg me. I don’t want a life of marriage and remarriage. I need your advice.
MRS
Dear MRS,
It’s a big pain to my heart that you are going through this. I feel your worries and troubles, I am sorry dear. Your husband is definitely going through some trauma, which has led to his outburst of anger on you, because I don’t see a reason why a man should arrest his wife for nothing. I understand that you don’t want to divorce him, you don’t want to have a re-marriage, that’s so thoughtful of you. But then, if he asked you to move out of his house, please kindly move before he does something terrible to you. As you can see, he is emotionally unstable for now, so dear, you should not put yourself into danger by staying with him if he ask you to leave. However, don’t stop praying for him, don’t stop believing that things would change. There have been worst cases than this and things still got better for them. Don’t give up, its not over yet. Attend a prayer and bible believing church and involve the leaders in this issue. You should also see a doctor, a gynaecologist who would carry out some medical check-ups on you to see if there is an issue somewhere, and necessary medical attention would be given to you. Also, if you are not working, you should get a job, no matter how small it might be, or involve yourself in trading to keep yourself busy.
With you well dear,
Tee.
No condition is permanent one day God will take this reproach from you. God always start to work when human effort cannot yield result just cast it upon God and relax.