[Advice Needed] My Fiance Said He Is Destined To Have Two Wives. Please Help!

Dear Tee,
I have been dating my guy for 5 years now and we planned to get married soon. Recently, his ex started calling him and the love between them sprang up quickly. I confronted him about it and he said he is destined to have two wives. I don’t think I want to share my husby with any one. Please, what should I do?

SD

Dear SD,
I think your man is not over his ex, because if he was, his ex would not just come up in the middle of your relationship and he would just accept her back. Funnliy, he even told you that he wants two wives…. This should be an indicator that its time you let go of that relationship; a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. You don’t deserve to be anybody’s spare time and an option. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be just with you and only you. I think you should talk to him about it once again and hear him out. If he is still bent on seeing his ex, then you should give up on the relationship; it might be hard after the number of years you have spent together, but your happiness matters most. You would be fine, trust me!

All the best,
Tee.

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