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The role of the social media in building relationships and businesses cannot be overemphasised. But the negative aspects seem to be growing with mixed reactions after the death of Cynthia Osokogu who was killed by friends she met on social media.

Since the case of Cynthia went viral, ladies who were before now ashamed to share their experiences in the hands of bad guys have started talking.

Below is the near-death experience a young lady had with a man who was her BBM friend:

I am a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you.

When Cynthia (the lady killed in the hotel room in Festac, Lagos) surfaced on the internet and various news media, I was scared and it brought back a whole lot of memories to me and also served as and eye opener. Many people castigated and criticised Cynthia (may her gentle soul rest in peace), but my point is, it could have been anybody, anybody at all.

We have met people through various social media. Some have ended up well, some have not but with painful memories. To cut the long story short, let me kindly share with you my encounter with social media especially the very popular Blackberry Messenger (BBM).

I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story.

I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos.

I also met his clique of friends, married as well with their various mistresses. We had ‘mad’ fun. After all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have sex, but he made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever imagined.

He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have sex with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with. I did not know that it was all part of the plan.

He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending naked pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn’t see for two weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey.

One faithful evening, he pinged me that he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends.

The BBM group opened and we got chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn’t mind if they were married, we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my friends in the group.

We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we went shopping for nice sexy beach wears.

The D-day finally came, we all assembled at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well ‘MARRIED MEN’. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn’t paying bills.

We got there, it was a private beach resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice setting.

I felt comfortable because it even had a fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming.

Anyways, we felt free with each other because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started. We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something strange about it.

I was also feeling HORNY as hell! I had been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I could still see faces, but was too weak and horny to react.

Mr B, the man who took me clubbing, carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8 girls, 8 guys, and they all stripped us down and had sex with us.

I enjoyed it a bit because I was horny. It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How inhuman and heartless they could be.

All of them took turns in switching partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other girls around me too were half naked and some stark naked.

We spent the night at the beach, but the men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well.

“We were drugged and used like tissue paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I would regret it.

I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I was not myself for a month.

I went back to school, I had no one to talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had.

Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia’s story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they (ladies who do runs) see it and changed their ways.

I am now born again. I have given my life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens.

To all married women, pray hard to God to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life.

Please, do not ignore my mail. Please post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn. Please post it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister, cousin, neighbour.

God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen.

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  1. sory o thou is also ur fault going out with someones husband nd to young ladies out dere pls stop meeting people u dont know, let it end in that chat rum abeggg dis is becuming to chat ,facebk both to go many people have stories to tel about it

  2. There are lots of flaw in this write up. I will not believe this story as a true life story. The money involve is too small. the fist outing the girl said she was giving N10,000 while the beach party, she got n16,000 out of which N2000 is for transport. Transport to where and by what mode of transportation. The story is far less than the truth.

  3. This story is nt a real life story, bt jst an eye opener. It‘s nt real bcos in d begining, d victim said she is a graduate n is working in kaduna, bt after been humiliated @ a beach in lagos, her CGPA dropped that semester as a result this event. Pls correct ur story by tellin ppl it is nt a real one…

  4. Shows how senseless you are in the first place for thinkin u can flirt wit married men and go witout being fucked they even tried by not rapin u till you’r dead! Or usin u for rituals! How can anybody in their rit senses see flirtin wit married men or women as the case may be as fun? CAN’T U SAY NO!? Even in ur story u said u enjoyed the sex. I guess if they had given you a bigger money you will not have told is this story instead you will go back for more! My friend get a life and I hope you are born again for real! I don’t pity people or girls lik you, there is no way if you were brot up well that u will go out wit married men even if you are poor! A prostitute is better bcos she’s out to do her bussiness and get paid, and move on, but you kept seeing group of married men, well I’m glad you learnt ur lesson. What I don’t understand is why a girl will go out of her way and meet som1 she has never seen or known b4?? R u girls mad? Appologies to Cynthia( RIP) but till today I still wonder! Or is it jazz? U will just travel and go meet som1 u hav neva known in ur life??pls pls girls get a brain!and use it!

  5. Some people are just shallow minded sum1 is trying to pass a message out to d world n all u low lifes can do is comment rubbish sayin shes lying cum to think of it wil she just wake up one mawning n start posting lies in d internet 4 people to read?

  6. @ashafa, get dis right. Dis is just ha story abt wat wen she was in school(CGPA mata) bt nw sh’s a graduate. Read tinz right n wel b4 u post ur comment if u shld post any.

  7. u are mad…..

    “”‘We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well ‘MARRIED MEN’. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn’t paying bills.””””….

    dis girl is mad….serves u rite…u want 2 enjoy and u dont wanna fuck……ur don dey madt abi???

    and fuck dis fucking website for wasting dis fucking space, plus dis fucking space………

  8. Stupid girl!! Go to hell abeg so you were angry bcos they gave you only 2000 for transport? You are not even grateful that they even gave you transport, I am sure if they had given you 50,000 you would have continued wit the flirting! You are only sorry bcos they dumped you and not bcos you knew it was bad datin married men. To hell wit u, do u think anytin in life is for free?? If na me after choppin my moni I will fuck you till you bleed! Get a life and stop deceiving yourself wit born again bcos I know if you see even 100,000 from another married man today you will go back to your old ways

  9. Pls read dis story and get d points right!She said she’s presently serving in Kaduna.She’s telling d story of wen she was in school.But d qustion is are u truly born again?If any guy ask u out and giv u d money wat of 1million naira, won’t u fall a victim again?Pls dis should serve as a lesson to our young girls dat exchanges their BBM pin and phone numba to Pple dey don’t kn.Accept d Lord Jesus christ into ur life today cos d kindom of God is at hand.


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