[Advice Needed] I Am Pregnant With His Baby, But He Is Not In Love With Me Anymore!!! What Do I Do?

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Dear Tee,
After a 7 year old relationship, he said he no longer has feelings for me. It was so shocking that I could not tell him that I am carrying his child. I have had 3 abortions for him and I want to keep this baby. What do I do?
Kem

Dear Kem,
I am sorry about what you are going through right now. However, I think he still deserves to know that you are carrying his baby…. He might tell you to abort the baby, but please do not kill that innocent child. If he is insistent on not having feelings for you anymore, move on with your life….its not going to be easy, yea! Surround yourself with good friends and don’t get stressed about it, your health is important. Challenges come with living, but sure they can be conquered if we make up our mind. Be brave, be strong and be proud of whom you are.
All the best,
Tee

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Swthrt kem,jst let him knw u ar carryin his baby n dnt abort dat innocent child,if he insist on leavin u,den move on wit ur lif n bear ur bby,never mind wat ppl wil say or wat u wil pass tru as a single parent,rem dat wat goes arund kums arund,dearie jst takhrt beliv u me,u wil b 5n witat him 100%.

  2. Dating for 7 years? U never saw the other side of him? where u charmed or blind folded? My sweet little girl, I assume that your parents/guardian or even good friends may have cautioned U. Now it has happened. What a good lesson to u out there in this act of adventuring. My advice? U dare not abort otherwise u will be charged for murder and die in the process. Double punishment. Go on your knees right now and ask God to forgive U, repent, ask for His mercy, tell God to deliver u from your mistakes and assure Him that henceforth you will keep your body holy. Then go ahead and thank Him for His mercy&kindness. As for the guy, do not speak evil or habor any grudge against him. Let God be in control of your life, surrender totally to Him. You will deliver the baby safely and your testimony shall be full. Good luck.

  3. Three abortions already down!!! Please don’t go into that again. You should have seen this after he asked for the first abortion. You need to cry for this kids you have destroyed already not the wicked fellow you are involved with. Forget him, ask God to forgive you. When you see his face, you shall rejoice.