Dear Tee,
I met this girl in Lagos in 2005 and we started dating. She is from Niger while I am from Delta state. She told me that she has vowed to marry any guy that disvirgin her and I was the one who disvirgined her. Its been four years we saw now because they now live in Sokoto, she called me earlier to remind me of the vow she made when I disvirgined her. My family do not want me to marry from a far place. I don’t want to break her heart, what do I do?
FF
Dear FF,
If you really love this girl and you want to marry her, then you should. You only need to convince your relatives that she is the one you really want to settle down with. I don’t think that they can force you to marry anyone, they can only make suggestion. Moreso, you are the man here, you are the one bringing someone home….so the decision is all up to you.
All the best,
Tee.
i will advice u, to think well and do wot ur hart want.
U re a man of ur self d ball is ur court u can play d wey u like
Ds is d 2nd tym l’l b commentng on ur use of d word “disvirgined”. l sed thr’s nofin lyk dat in Eng. Haba! It’s “DEFLOWERED” 4 cryng out loud!
Pls dont betray this lady,remmember promise to her.and you are the man of your self.dont betray her i beg you oo
Don’t mind wateva they may say….u knw d best 4 urself,don’t allow them 2 mislead u,coz u re d one dt wl live wt whosoeva u get marry to….so if u truly luv her sincerely,don’t dare break her hrt…gudluck
D decision n choice are urs follow wat ur hrt wants, pls don’t break d hrt of dat lady. Gudluck guy.
Guy you better keep your promise or karma would catch up with you.
Guy listen to ur parents after all a man does not marry a women alone. U need their blessings, try as much as u can to convince them, Let her hv patience
I wish it can be possible to re- virgin her and let her go. I am wandering why you had to believe her when she brain washed you that she was a virgin and she made a vow, you accept it. How old was she when you dis -virgin her? In Lagos? Or should I start thinking she was under age and you raped her?
Bongos- the musician recorded a song where he ask to be shown a virgin in a maternity ward. A matured girl in Lagos? How did you meet her in Lagos ?
Start re-thinking and develop your advice for yourself.
pls guy dnt dissapoint dat young lady but let her knw dat if u guyz ar made 4 each order notin can seprate u cuz God blessin count alot!
Hello you need to make decision yourself not ur famil then remember dat u have promise d girl and don’t let d girl course u