Speak Your Mind
Your man isn’t a mind reader. Let him know how he can amp up your aróusal before you get down to business. Try telling him something like, “I really love it when you kíss my neck while you touch me here” and guide his hands to where you want them.
PDA Before You Play
Start the fóreplay in public. Press your body up against him, rub his thigh, then lightly graze your fingertíps between his legs. Keep doing this every five minutes or so until you two are completely alone.
Explore each other’s body to uncover new hot spots. Lay there and have him use different types of pressures and touches. Then switch and do the same to him. Not sure where to start?
Play a Game
Write down all the different things you want to do during fóreplay on index cards. Place them upside down on the bed, pick one, give it a try, and repeat. Or, play a different game,
Switch It Up
Tease your guy by lícking and touchíng him in his pleasure spóts. Change your moves once you see that he is getting really into it, so he doesn’t órgasm. Keep it going until he begs for more.
Whether it’s from oral or your favorite vibratór, have him help you get off. Women are lucky enough to have multiple órgasms, so have as many as you can.
As you fool around, say things like “This feels so good…take your time” or “Baby, you’re driving me insane. This ramps up your lust and lets him know his moves feel good.