Marriage is a beautiful union of two individuals coming together to find their ‘happily ever after’ story. But, this union has some best kept secrets that only those who have gone through the process are privy to! Yes, this is true. There are certain things about weddings that married couples have been through, yet choose not to share with their soon-to-be married friends and relatives. So, all those getting married, we have decided to break this cycle of secrecy for you. Here is a list of top things that no one would tell you about weddings.
1. Less invitee never signifies lower costs!
If you believe that by keeping your guest list short you can save on your wedding budget, think again! Things do not work out that way all the time. Keeping related costs in perspective can offer better results. After all, the expenses related to hiring an expensive photographer or a live band can override your wedding budget. Well, guests are not the sole reasons that make a wedding budget shoot up. So, plan your wedding budget carefully and with complete perspective before you begin striking out names from the guests list.
2. Things will go wrong!
Every girl dreams of a fairy tale wedding! They want a perfect wedding where everything is set in accordance to a pre-orchestrated plan. Sadly, things in real life do not work that way. Your unique ice sculpture may melt down before the ceremony, your revolving stage may not revolve at the precise moment, and rains may decide to play a prank on your wedding day. When it comes to a wedding plan, it is best to be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. So, keeping a realistic expectation is important
3. People will always notice!
If you feel that in the enjoyment and festive atmosphere of weddings, people will be too busy to notice small or imperceptible errors, you are completely wrong! The invitees not only keep an eagle’s eye on the proceedings, but also discuss the mistakes for the times to come. For this reason people nowadays prefer to employ a wedding planner, so that it becomes their responsibility to organize everything perfectly. However, keep in mind that no matter what ‘hits’ or ‘misses’ your guests observe, this will remain your special day forever
4. No one will give you straight answers ever!
“Do you think this color will go with our theme?” “Are you sure this dress is looking good on me?” “Should we hire a live band or a DJ?” Every bride-to-be wants the honest opinion whenever she asks such questions. Well in reality, put such questions up to your friends, wedding vendors or even your would-be and you would never get a straight answer. ‘Yes’ or ‘no’ replies are hard to find when you seek people’s help to finalize your wedding details. Best reply you can get is “if you feel so…”!
