Hello, my name is anonymous, I’m a polytechnic student and I am pregnant for my cousin for the third time. My cousin and I are age mates in our early twenties, we’ve been secretly dating for 2 years now.
I don’t have a boyfriend neither does he have a girlfriend, we started having sex 2 years ago and this is my third pregnancy for him, we’ve previously aborted 2 pregnancies that almost took my life. It all started when I gained admission in his school, I was told to live with him for some period before I would get my own accommodation because he was a year ahead of me and he was living alone in one room on campus.
I accepted to live with him because we are cousins and I see nothing bad in it. To cut the story short we started having sex due to the fact that I’m always careless with my body. I broke up with my boyfriend and he also did the same thing to his girlfriend, we fell in love with each other, we were behaving like couples to the extent that neighbours were suspecting, we had sex almost every time cos I decided to live with him as a couple on campus before my mother separated us because she wasn’t comfortable with the way we were living together.
Now, I am pregnant again and I am really scared of abortion because the last one I did almost took my life, its not like we don’t use condoms but we can be careless sometimes. Our parents must not hear about it, I’m 6 weeks gone now, my
cousin is begging me to go for an abortion but I am so scared and out of my mind cos I don’t want to die.
I don’t know what to do, I’m even considering informing our parents cos I don’t want to die, what can I do apart from abortion?
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my dear d best solution is prayer and my advice to u is to confront ur parents so it wouldnt a a tin of had i knwn and take lyf easy d lord wud see u tru
i just have to tell you to see ur pastor or spiritual father if u have one. but when there is non see you parent and confide in them.
I aswell had case like that but GOD handled it for me.
There was no love between you and your cousin its all about things of the flesh.
u dnt wanna die nd u went in search of sumfin dat cn bring death. Au cn u even b attracted 2 ur cuz? Anyau pray 2 God nd tel ur parents……dat is if d story is tru.
u dnt wanna die nd u went in search of sumfin dat cn bring death. Au cn u even b attracted 2 ur cuz? Anyau pray 2 God nd tel ur parents……dat is if d story is tru nd r dey dat careless 2 d xtent of nt noticing sumtin goin on btween u 2
Hmmmmmmm, well its so unfortunate,but the advice I will give to you is,think positive and do the right thing.I have similar case but I kept away from her cos she’s so in2 me that she jst want 2be wit me all d time.
D 2nd one was a sign;so if u do d 3rd one,u will die.So dnt even try it
Don’t try abosion, tell ur parent pray 4 God 4giveness and sin no more.
get lost
My advice 2 u is that sins its ur cusin. good ur family wll be progress. when she ovend u can’t beat her or send her away b/c its one of ur family memeber so,according 2 Yoruba . elo fi egun otolo too
don’t abort d baby, for God sink born d baby and if u trial to abort d baby u die pls dont pls
The mistake u made is ur wrong ideology dat u can’t marry ur cousin. My dear, u can marry ur cousin. The only sin u’ve commited is fornication. God is ever ready to forgiv sin if u repent.
Dont abort, marry ur cousin. May God bless d union more.
U made a very big mistake,i blame ur parents 4 puttn u 2geda wit ur cousin in d 1st plc nd i also blame u 4 nt controlin ursef nd cautionin ur cousin.Wel my advice 4u is,tel ur cousin 2 get sum1 dat wil claim d responsibility of d pregnancy b4 ur parents wch he wil fund d bills secretly.So dat after u must hv put 2 bed,d baby wil be dedicated 2 d motherless babies home 4 proper care.Do not go 4 abortion,rememba 2 pray nd ask God 4 forgiveness both u nd ur cousin.Stay bless.
It’s so sad bt I’ll advice dat u summon d courage and confront ur parents b4 it’s too late cos one day d truth will come out.Don’t abort d pregnancy
if ur scared give birth to the baby for him, its best u have a baby for ur cus and let the entire world know abt ur shameful act or better still do the abortion and face the chances and risk of loosing ur life… the ball is in ur court, but anything u do, thing wise, life is sweet and short, the worst they will do is talk..
Since you were already living as husband and wife with your cousin, then go ahead and marry him.
If am your parents that is what i will do; bcos you can not bring an innocent child to this world and abandon the baby or continue to abort the babies. It is sin and should not be encouraged and your parents should be blamed for putting two active minds together in the name saving cost.
am speechless but all d same try to inform ur mother 1st nd listen to wat she wil tell u.dnt go for D&C again bcos NAA ONE WORLD DEY NO BE TWO.
how can u start what u can not finish?continue my dear….life is sweeter than honey.d only solution is too seek for divine intervetion.accept jesus……. full stop.
A copious examination of ur issue,reveals that, U̶̲̥̅̊ r not seeing d act as immoral neither have U̶̲̥̅̊ envisage d future shameful implication. U̶̲̥̅̊ only said dis bcos of d death looming. Dear victim, U̶̲̥̅̊ need divine intervention bcos sex wt ur cousin is notin bt covenant.seek God’s face, U̶̲̥̅̊ av murdered 2,dont add to them.Jesus loves U̶̲̥̅̊!
Abomination! What you’ve done is a shame to womanhood but open up to your parent.
Lady what ever has prompted that relationship is not d issue now but i can assure you dt it is nt love,if you love yourself & he love you,both of u wld’nt hv done wt you did not to talk of him asking u to do another D&C knowing wt you went through d last time. Lady wake up and try to talk to your parent that is if they wont ask you to kill this time around. You are precious be4 God and he will welcome you now if you truely repent. It is not the end of the world but the begining of new chapter in your life. All the best.
What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and what is not yours, no matter how hard you try, it will never be yours?U Dnt let go in evry situatn,even if u ve tried al possible means.sometimes God may be testing ur patience or endurance
The deed has been done, wat u can do now is to ask for God’s forgiveness after den confide in your mum, tell her d abortions u’ve done in d past and how u managed to survived d second abortion, so dat she will not bring abortion as option for u. Prepare in your mind to keep d baby no matter wat happened either u’re rejected or accepted take everything as d price u’ve to pay for ur sin. Detach urself from ur cousin, let d families meet and discuss aw d baby will be taking care of. DON’t ABORT the BABY. God will see u through.
Quite unfortunate that both of you brought shame unto your family. Unless both of you are long distance cousin that your parent can at last allow u to have the baby. You have put curse upon urself even the child unborn. My dear go and pray for God intervention.
hmmmmm, wat a touching story.stop abusing her, nobody is above flesh except d spirit of God dwells in u….. I will advice u 2 av d baby, if possibl try 2 change d enviro 4 a while in oda 2 avoid poisonous talk from people. I av heard of twins who impregnantd each oda. Pls expose urself 2 ur mum bkus she means alot 2 u and den take d burden which will last 4 awhile…..
hmmmmm, wat a touching story.stop abusing her, nobody is above flesh except d spirit of God dwells in u….. I will advice u 2 av d baby, if possibl try 2 change d enviro 4 a while in oda 2 avoid poisonous talk from people. I av heard of twins who impregnantd each oda. Pls expose urself 2 ur mum bkus she means alot 2 u and den take d burden which will last 4 awhile…..pls can u call me, lets av a talk 08037975034
dis a 1daful mistake frm both of u. at d 1st place I blame ur parent 4 allowing u leave wit a cousin wis is a male 4 such dat long, an u mostly 4 incestin wit dat bin ashamed of posin ur nude wit him, 1st 2nd abortn I dnt tink u wud ve even com across such encanta in ur life wit dat call cousin.. my advice is do not abort d child u may b at risk of death u ar a murder at d 1st place u must knw, remember He dat dig a pit must 1st fall into it. if u plan 2 abort death will as well plan 2 abort u. put head 2geda let som1 else stand responsible inform ur parent bring forth d child nurture him/her an take to modaless babies home. gud luck ur time Start now.
Scared??? Come on! You’ve had two abortions already what difference could a third make??…BITCH
Eyah,its a pity.my advice 4 u is 2 ask 4 4gveness den contact ur mum 1st.den if its allowed in ur family 4 cousins to marry den u could marry,bt if nt allowed do not abort d baby.wen u put to bed take d baby to a motherless home. may GOD be wit u.