Men are wonderful creatures that we can’t do without (There’s no point arguing about that). We need their strength, support, care and love. At times some of us confuse a man’s constant invitation to his house and compliments for love while others are just blinded by the idea of finding Mr Right that when they meet a guy with 90 percent of the “criteria” they become satisfied and down for whatever. If you and your guy have decided to be friends with benefits with no strings attached then this really isn’t for you but if you’re in a committed relationship or you just met this guy and all he wants is sex or you’re not even sure about where you stand, then you should read this.
1. HE NEVER LETS YOU CHECK HIS PHONE He tends to be a bit secretive like he’s hiding something. If a man has nothing to hide he’ll be totally free around you and not be bothered if you find anything or not. He tries to distract you when you reach for his phone or begins to kiss you. These are signs that he has a gf and you’re the side chick or he just doesn’t want you snooping around.
2. HE ONLY CHATS YOU UP WHEN HE’S HORNY If he doesn’t call you the whole day or for days then its a sign that he’s not into you. When he eventually calls, he says “Sorry I haven’t called but I miss you and wish you were here” *rolls eyes* you know what he wants.
3. HE DOESN’T TALK MUCH ABOUT HIMSELF When you ask about his family or work, he doesn’t say much or nothing at all. He never wants to be as open as you are willing to be or talk about his emotions but will rather talk about how sexy you look and how he wants to try out new things in bed. If a man is in love with you, he’ll be willing to share his likes, fears and tell you about his family.
4. HE DOESN’T ASK ABOUT WORK,FRIENDS AND FAMILY This is also a major sign! He doesn’t show concern for your work or friends, he only wants you to himself (when he wants you). You always find yourself telling him about work, family or your adventures with friends instead of he asking you. If he really cares about you then he should be interested in knowing everything and anything concerning you, call you often and make you feel loved not lust after.
5. HE DOESN’T INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS FRIENDS/FAMILY If you haven’t met his friends or his family then he doesn’t find you worthy enough. If you think you’re in a serious relationship and he hasn’t invited you to hangout with his buddies then have a re-think. Whenever you ask about his family and you express hopes of meeting them, he tells you its unnecessary and turns you down.
6. HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE SEEN IN PUBLIC WITH YOU Now this just gives the cat out of the bag. There’s nothing as romantic as a public display of affection. When you talk about going to the movies, he brings up some excuse about work or tells you how much he hates the cinema and prefers to cuddle up with you. He never wants to do anything fun with you or be seen in public with you instead he invites you to a date at his “house”. That’s not a date but a trick!
Source: zegist.com
