It is generally perceived that getting back together with your ex is indeed not a good idea no matter what. As my colleagues unanimously agreed that; “It is a terible idea and a total waste of time to get back with my ex!”
There are different reasons why a lot of exs will get back together (of which majority are quite unhealthy) still, there are people who still do that and their relationships are stronger, better and end up in holy matrimony. So, for those who are not sure if they should give it another shot, here’s how you can know if its gonna be a good or terribly bad idea;
- There Is Evidence Of Change For The Better
You don’t wan the reasons for the heart-break to show up again do you? So, take a long, hard look at yourself and your ex. Are there real, true positive changes? If not, there will be changes. In other words, if you can point to things you learned from your first relationship failure and how they’ve helped you both grow as individuals, a second first date might not be such a bad idea.
- Your mind has changed
If your lack of love, happy or fulfillment was from you then, its time to do self-assessment. If this is not done, there is a very high probability that, you’ll never fully accomplish your emotionally in the next round of this relationship. The important question is, what has changed? And honesty with yourself will help you both internally and externally.
- The situation has changed
If your breakup was based on the timing of things, work, distance and other external factors then its another opportunity to access things.