I am a female student in one of the Nigerian university. I have financial instability for the past 6 months. Somehow, I have been coping, but now, the issue is worse. Recently, my room mates introduced me to an elderly man, very old enough to be my dad! We met last Friday and he promised me 250000 Naira – only if I would sleep in his apartment this coming weekend as his wife would not be in the country.
I sincerely need this money for my upkeep and other things. No other help is coming forth! Should I go for it?
Its sad that you are in a situation like this. So so sad! But, I want you to understand that our past has a way of catching up with us in the future. If you do this now, you would never be proud of it cos its not right. You would not want your husband to bring in a young lady when you get married too. Respect the queen in you, keep your head up and say a BIG NO! This is just a test, a phase that would pass. There is light at the end of every dark tunnel. You should look for a part time job that allows for your academics. Keep your head up, don’t lose your integrity.
All the best.
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