Ask Jay: My Boyfriend Has A Crazy Ex! Please Help!!!

crazy ex

Dear Jay,

I recently started dating this new guy. He’s very loving and caring but he has a crazy ex-girlfriend. She calls him like 200 times a day, threatens to kill him or herself if he doesn’t take her back and she’s even been threatening me. She’s making us very miserable. What should I do?



Dear N.A,

Dealing with troublesome exes can be a real pain in the neck. I understand what you’re going through and I sympathize.

However, the best way to deal with a situation like this is to ignore the trouble maker. She’s just a heartbroken soul who is showing her pain the wrong way. Do whatever it takes to ignore her. I know it seems impossible but replying her only fuels her hatred and bitterness.  It might take a little while but eventually she’ll get tired and leave you alone. I hope this was helpful. I wish you the very best.



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