Ask Jay: My Girlfriend’s Parents Don’t Think I’m Good Enough For Her



Dear Jay,

 I’m dating a lady and we love each other very much but her parents think I’m not spiritually inclined enough for their daughter. I don’t know what to do because she has actually been used by God for my life.


Dear O.A,

     I understand your plight but you need to understand that your girlfriend’s parents mean well for her. They want to be sure their daughter marries a good man so you need to prove to them that you are a good man. Find a way to let them know that you love their daughter and you have good intentions towards her. Show seriousness and I’m sure their hearts will soften towards you. I hope this was helpful. I wish you the very best.



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