I Am About To Marry A Man I No Longer Love, Am I Making A Mistake?

I am about to get married. In fact my wedding is in 16 days from now. But thing is I just realized I don’t love him like I used to.

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I don’t even know how to tell him how I feel. I am so scared of breaking his heart. I have been trying my best to rekindle my feelings but its not working.

I am so confused and don’t know what to do. I know I can’t cancel the wedding because everything is set but I can’t help but feel I’m making a mistake. What should I do?

13 COMMENTS

  1. I just want to advice dat u should try love him back it might be work
    Of devil pls love him and pray to God is a work devil make contact wit prayer warrior they going to fight dat devil pls it might be obstacle pls it does want to get married but I my self well be praying for u I am a muslim I pray u will have succesful marriage long life and prosperity amen u can call if u wish dis my no 08059128534

  2. I just want to advice u dat u should try love him back it might be work
    Of devil pls love him and pray to God is a work
    Of devil make contact wit prayer warrior they are going to fight dat devil pls it might be obstacle pls it does
    not want u to get married but I my self well be praying for u I am a muslim I will pray u will have successful marriage long life and prosperity amen u can call if u wish dis my no 08059128534

  3. You better stop now! Your life is at a very high risk. If you try you will live to regret for the rest of your life. I tried it, it gave me 20 yrs set back. There are things I am going to work very hard for to get there.

  4. My dear, i think you should take a while,meditate and open up to yourself.Ask yourself why you no longer love a man whom you used to love.My best bet is you are distracted by someone else whom you think is better than he is or you are just been human. Our love for someone CANNOT last forever,no it can’t.Because as humans we crave for new things @ every point in life.We crave for anew emotions,adventures,friends,etc and this distraughts us from that which we already have in a bid to run after some other thing we crave for.The best way to sustain our love for someone is to make the person our true best friend .cos even if you break -up now to date someone else,you wud soon fall out of love with the person,its natural.True friendship is the only way to keep your love anew in a long term relationship like marriage,so when you ar no longer seeing the person as a lover,you can see the person as a friend.You can achieve this through the following ways; expressing your anger verbally wen you ar angry without holding anything back and making up afterwards,laughing out loud and hard when you are playing,speaking out when you get jealous,seeing him not just as a friend bt as a brother and above all not letting the sun set on your anger/disagreement in order to have room for other disagreements which may come ahead,in other words letting go of past hurts.And finally,learning to be submissive like God Instructs.

  5. My Dear Sister Thank God for everything and bless him for this your husband to be. You said that you used to love him before now and after fixing date for your weding then youstarted feeling that you no longer love him now.
    You are not a baby . Somebody there is already remoting your mind not to have feeling of love therefore trying to Destroy your marriage.
    I want you to commit this marriage into the hands of the Lord Jesus Christ for power from above IJN Amen.
    Go ahead and marry your love. because when the devil sees that you want to succeed he will be suggesting different things to your heart
    God bless you

  6. Dear sis,
    I feel what u fearing, it something that has happened to me before. The devil does not like Gus things and doesn’t reside where gud things. take place, therefore when u planning on doing something gud such as marriage it tends to discourage u. Pray fervently pls, if u once love him den u probably will still be able to rekindle ur love. Just try to think of that thing that made u love him in the first place and why u feel u don’t anymore, weigh them to see what you get to loss if u let him go. So many have made that mistake of letting go in the past which they regrect today. Just think deeply on ur own cos in the end It all depends on u. May God order ur step and direct ur path so DAT you can do the right thing.

  7. My dear, ask God for direction bcos He alone knws d end from the beggining.pray harder n ask ur spiritual leaders for prayers n councel. May God help u make the ryt decision void of regret. Amen /

    You better stop now! Your life is at a very high risk. If you try you will live to regret for the rest of your life. I tried it, it gave me 20 yrs set back. There are things I am going to work very hard for to get there.

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