I don’t know how to engage in a physical fight, not to talk of beating someone. So, it baffles me when I see or hear of these stuffs in relationships and marriages. But the truth is, some ladies of today don’t deserve my kind of guy – the gentle type who you can talk to anyhow and all he does is to walk away.
Anyway, that’s a topic for another day. I feel sad for my friend Anne Njemanze who has had to leave the house of her second husband, yet her first husband is now happily married with kids. What is the matter with her? Is it that she is in the category of ladies who are claiming “no man can control me”?
Sincerely, if your first husband sent you packing and your second husband has started using blows to design your face in less than two yeas of marriage, then you really need to check yourself..
The marriage between Anne Njemanze and Silver Ojieson is over and the saga didn’t end well. It was fighting and beating all the way, to the extent she was injured.
In our society, mature ladies with few millions find it difficult to marry the kind of man a woman should marry; a man who is ok, a bit older than you, who you can respect and work with comfortably.
On the flip side, some young ladies who enjoy this privilege usually abuse it because they often think that it is possible for them to get a bigger and better man, hence they take what they have for granted.
But by the time they get to 30 plus and might have slept with several boyfriends and sugar daddies, it is then that reality will dawn on them that life cannot be lived solely based on how you wished it.
Sadly, Anne has learnt her lesson the hard way. The “young man” who married her and moved into her own apartment is now gone after everything, not to talk of the serious beatings. How sad!
Life can truly be sweet all the way, but only for ladies who imbibe the virtues of sincerity and honour.