Nigerian gay rights activist, Bisi Alimi is telling gay men how to react when they like a straight man and also how straight men should handle propositions from gay men.
The blog writer told gay men that they have a right to express their feelings to men, unless the man informs them that he is straight.
For straight men asked out by gay men, Bisi advised them to be “honorable” and say “thank you but I’m only into girls”.
He asked them to be as gracious in their refusal of gay men as lesbian women are in refusing straight men they are not attracted to.
This comes on the heels of conversations about how aggressive straight men are towards gay men who show the slightest interest in them.