Below is what fast rising Yoruba actress, Tope Osoba said when asked if she believed S^x is only for married couples…
“I think S^x is meant to be enjoyed by two people who have serious feeling for each other. S^x is good, it is there for two lovers to enjoy themselves and share the secrets of their hearts.
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On whether one should engage in premarital S^x or not, I would say, yes. Premarital S^x is okay as long as it is a safe sex. Our society allows it. These days, you can hardly keep a relationship going without S^x.”
Who agrees with this statement? If you decide to zip up, does that mean you can’t keep a relationship?
LINDA IKEJI
i did not buy that idea.its a lia you can keep relationship without sex
True talk sis.only if u B E L I E V E!!!!!!!
Keeping relatioship without sex is normal but many people can,t bear it,somebody like me can,t cos i love sex,sorry to say dis.
The fact that Tope Osoba cannot keep a relationship without sex should not make her conclude about everyone. There are thousands around who are not swayed by what is the trend in society.
Some of us keep ourselves pure not for fear of HIV/AIDS or unwanted pregnancy. We just want to keep our dignity even if society thinks otherwise.
Most importantly, we just love to please our God not for fear of punishment. We just simply love our God and choose to express this in our obedience to him in all things.
When we are talking of sense of shame u re shameless.This is one of the signs of end time,y wuld somebody say dre is nting bad in losing virginity before wedding.it is only a prostitute dat does dat nd if am right she is one of dem,dats y she is trying to back her self up.
general shut the fuck up, u do worst things than she does and all u do is insult people on the internet? Dats her own point of view u are entitled to ur own opinion and u can do dat with respect.
No more respect 2 irresponsible, y nver u advide her to get married?
yes you can keep a relationship without sex big time. Its even more interesting without sex but you must allow him to have it with someone els.
Thats idea belongs 2 a professional prostidute, lest any one proove it !!!
never use your own perception in life to judge others in society, sex is not love it is what people do to satisfy their flesh.
Very correct sis. Many relationships hav collapsed due to ‘zip up’
Ajisafe, you are right. But I’d like to let you know that many more relationship have grown stronger because of ‘zip up’.
If a relationship collapse because of ‘zip up’, isn’t that proof that the relationship has failed the test of character which is ‘a vital’ basis for a lasting relationship.
Sex is not only prohibited in Islam but is among the biggest sins that is mentioned.
So i don’t support this and every practicing Muslim will not. My advice to all of us is, we should not be influenced by what some people do, we should first of all think of what our religion says about it before doing it.
Every Muslim should not commit adultery and fornication.
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Adekunle thank you so much for you contribution. Some persons will always find means of justifying their weaknesses.
signs of d endtyme. as a christian, u hv no business induldging in sex b4 marriage cox its a sin against God. my dear, i pity u cox hell is ur final destination if u continue wit dis notion. zippn up has always being d best & d right thn 2 do.
It’s very hard 2 zip up yl in a relationship, depending on d time frame involved. I mean, only very few of us can keep dis and it’s just by HIS grace.
She might b right
sex is prohibited in both islam & cristianity it allowonly in marriage my dear…!
Why do you want to corrupt d innocent girls out there, if sleeping around with men is ur hobby thts ur biz but pls and pls be mindful of this ur useless posting u prostitute
all dis is islam sturf u guyz are talking abt u guyz are d wost fornicators nd adultras, hypocricy!!
Lets learn to respect ourselves irrespective of the persons perspective towards certain issues in life. You have no reason to insult any body rather u can disagree with whatever the person said by sharing ur own point of arguiment, every body is entitled to his or her opinion. People come on line and claim to be religious. Yes the bible condemn fornication, but mind u its by the grace of God that some people are standing NOT by there strength. The bibles say those of us that thinks we stand we should take heed lest we fall. So to the sis that pose this I suppose u are a believer if yes the bible says let not this things be mention among u, so am sure the grace of God is sufficient for u to zip up but not by human flesh becos I have seen a lot of the mighty falling in that aspect.
Ppl can lie! Ah! Nigerians d@z y we r backward we pretend a lot. How many of u talking r still pure mtschewww!
Any pre-marital sex, be it in a serious or no serious relationship is SIN. Anybody encouraging that is not only deceiving himself/herself but many…this can attract d wrath of God. Desist from dat and don’t mind her. Wonders shall never cease in dis world, nawaaooo!!!
My 6terz d advice remain disme,it al abt endtme’z try 2 do d rit tin whch wl pleases ur God.
this right becos it is d type of situation dat we meant ourself so if u refuse dat u dont do 4 ur fiance ad she want to another guy wthat will udo.
Tope has just say her mind out and wat she felt abt sex. To be sincere, most Nigeria are pretenders when it come to the issue of said. They want to play saint. It only 10% of married couple that can come out boldly and say dey never had sex, till dre wedding nite. Everybody has its own meaning and definition for sex. As for me, sex is nothing, God only make sex for reproduction… If u re nt ready to have offspring, why having sex. There is nothing like safe sex… Sex is sex. As Nigerians, we dont need to be a pretender
Datz big insanity nd Shame 2 ur face nd to women of fame nd celebrity 4 u 2 b sayin such
if u ar a sex monger fine go ahead nd do it bt dn’t judge orders wit wot u lyk.
Nxt tym no dey yarn Rubbish o
Adekunle, i luv ur words. Sex does nt grow rltnship. Flee from fornication. Dats wat d bible say
Majority wud desire to answer in the affirmative becouse they are d categories that count sex as an ecstacy that ensures the satisfaction of the lascivious flesh. While some in the bid of ensuring pregnacy, they do it premarital. Sex is ultimately allowed incessantly for legitimate couples!!!
I did not believe it,to me it does make sense,so far i have sex wit my gurl, she is nothing to me again,what else
That is someone’s thoughts. U may accept it or not. 4 me, Im down with it. Protected sex is kuul. It must be done scrupulously.
S^x in relationship keep relationship going on a smooth ground…cos it makes u both feel urself…some1 like me like sex and sex with the only u love most is the most enjoyable tin in relationship…not just sleeping around….
A fool in silence is counted among de wise sister y did u exposed ur foolishness tode whl world well am nt judgin u bcos i too am adulteler though i dnt cherish it at de level of possing it out cos its unfair befor papa GOD pls find smtin beter les discos.
sex is nt love nd love is nt sex,nd xo i dont buy dat idea of premarital sex.dont allow good sex to ruin ur entire life bcux u do nt knw if ur partner is ready to marry u or not.xo beware! sex is not a sign of real love.
Pretenders!
No religion supports it, yet how many of u keep to it?
If u re inluv u av 2 lyk sexy anyway,ntin bad on av sexy wit ur b/frnd
Luv d hrt dat luv u,if u av b/frnd u av 2 do wit sexy