1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.
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Tnx dear u’ve spoken well left 4 us 2 take note
You too much.
nice one
A bitter pill 2 swallow 4 ladies
Nice one, she dat has ears, let her hear.
Ladies take Note: learn from this if u have heart
plz ladies, to mek ur guy to stand for true lov d key is with you.
Love u guys
for me, this is rubish
I was waiting to see if at least one person was sane here…utter rubbish the writer seems to have a bruised/fragile ego
You are on point dear. Honestly, you just hit d nail.
Human philosophy pls just allow Gods guidiance pls
God bless u dear for sayn d simple truth
There is an atom of truth in dat but if God says he is yours then he wil lik evrytin abt you
That is the truth of d matter
This is indeed, mind blowing, i felt like i just ate a bowel of pounded yam with vegetable soup. Thanks a million times. ladies, its up to you! which do you want?
Dis is wht i call d real comfirmed guideline-manual 4d wise ones! But d fools ones wll stil find it hard 2undrstnd or degest. Som kip deceivin themslve dat God wl marry 4dem. Anywy, d choice is our.
A word is enough 4 a wise
Idiotic write up! Ten million nonsensical articles like these will not change the fact that we have liberated ourselves from being the floor mats of egocentric selfish men who despite being treated like kings by their women turn around and treat these same women like trash. Mean selfish cowards who instead of stepping up to be the man would expect their women to grovel before them so they can feel like men. You don’t have to like it but you will have to accept it! Sorry.
Well said my dear, we keep reading stupid write ups for women to change whereas our men are worst!
Nice one I luv dis
gals knew all dis but due to abnormal scarcity of husband, dey can’t kip it, so we ve to kip fuckin like solomon. Haha. I always thank GOD 4 makin me a man oderwise i wuld have bin spendin my little cash in foolish mak ups, looking for a man to fuk and dump me. Ladies dnt wory d bible says dat time shal com wen gals shall carry all dey ve to a man, just 4 him to permit dem 2 ans his name.,, everyday we no go hia word just because evrybody wants to becom a celebrity. We shall trigger fuckin till u realise urselves nd behave like africans.. Foolssss….
Then u will lose a good woman….u can’t get a sincere woman with ur immature mindsects!
Yes, u’av spoken well. Say the truth even though is bitter.
I agree with only number 7 the rest na moi moi! And the bad dressing part which is bad!
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